A lot of people read my last newsletter and recognised themselves in it.
The discount you offered before anyone objected. The fee you haven’t increased in years. The clients you work with keep you in your comfort zone rather than giving you the opportunity to grow and learn.
Recognition is a good start. But recognition without action is just self-awareness with no growth.
So here is something practical. One exercise. Not a framework, not a five-step system. Just one exercise that, if you do it properly, will show you exactly where the ceiling is and where it came from.
Step one: Write down two numbers.
The fee you currently charge for a significant engagement, or the way you charge for your services.
Now, write down the fee you know you should be charging. Don’t think about it. Don’t calculate. Write the number that comes to mind before your chimp intervenes with reasons why it is a silly idea.
Look at the gap between those two numbers. That gap is not a pricing problem. It is the distance between who you have become and who you believe you can still be.
Step two: Ask yourself one question.
What would have to be true about me for the higher number to feel acceptable? You’ll feel some discomfort as you think ing about this.
Write the answer honestly. Don’t edit it. Don’t make it sound professional.
Whatever you wrote, that is your identity script and the internal story running quietly underneath every client conversation, every proposal, every moment you hesitate before saying the number out loud.
Step three: Locate it in time.
Where did that belief come from? Family? Childhood. A person. A moment when you decided, consciously or not, what someone like you was worth.
For many experienced professionals, it goes back further than their careers. It was formed before any of the evidence existed. Before the outcomes, the transformed clients, the hard-won judgment that now looks like instinct.
That belief was formed when you didn’t even know yourself and were still trying to prove yourself. And it has been running on autopilot ever since.
Here is what this tells you.
A belief formed in 2005 should not be setting your prices in 2026. The evidence has changed. You have changed beyond recognition. The outcomes you create have changed.
But identity doesn’t update automatically. It updates when the pain of the disconnect becomes too much, and you deliberately decide to examine whether it still serves you. It doesn’t.
Most people never do that work. They keep refining their offer, polishing their positioning, tweaking their pricing page, writing more posts and wonder why nothing shifts. The work starts deeper than that.
One more thing.
Before you move on, read back what you wrote in step two. Read it slowly and ask yourself, How much of it is actually untrue? And how much of it have you simply never allowed yourself to own?
If this exercise brings up something you want to work through properly, let’s have that conversation.
The process I use goes deeper than this, into the evidence you have accumulated over the years but never fully claimed, the patterns you can see that others cannot, and the fees that finally reflect what you actually deliver.
Until we meet.
Morton
Most organisations need external challenge before a crisis forces it. Someone who can name what everyone sees but no one will say. I work with CEOs during transformation as an external strategic voice with no dependency on approval. Message me if you’re navigating change and open to a fresh perspective: value@mortonpatterson.com
